How can Discernment happen within family setting? | Ignite the Way
Alfonso Salgado Ruiz, a layperson and father, discusses the concept of discernment within the family context. He emphasizes that the family is the primary community where discernment naturally occurs, evolving constantly due to its dynamic nature. Discernment in families involves making decisions that affect the household or contribute socially or spiritually. He highlights the importance of collective participation from all family members in this process, supported by open dialogue, shared emotions, and calm environments.
Alfonso offers practical advice for family discernment, such as clearly defining the issue, reflecting individually and collectively on feelings and pros and cons, and creating spaces for calm discussion. He illustrates this with the example of a family member considering a significant service commitment requiring family involvement. The decision is ultimately individual but made with family support and subsequent reflection on its impact. Alfonso also outlines the role of an external accompanist who aids by clarifying processes, acting as a mirror to the family’s dialogue, and ensuring openness and participation in decision-making.
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